You aren´t sure if your friend is really your friend?

This kind of things happen all the time...
She says she is my friend, but she never listens to me
She says she is my friend, but she always gossips about me.
She says she is my friend, but she is always lying to me.
She says she is my friend, but she is girlfriend of the guy she knew I loved!!!
Then you´ll go home and start crying because that bitch was very mean and rude to you, she made or said something you didn´t expect. And then you´ll say... "Why? How could she do that? I´ve always been a good friend, nice and kind with her. Oh God, please help me!"
But heyyyyy... hold on second. how many times did she make the same to you? Hahahaha, one?! Yeah, sure. nobody will beleive you. I bet that this started since you met her, and you´ve been accepting her apologies and trusting her. And you are still, "friends"? You really think that bitch is your friend? Oh, men! Come one girl open your eyes, she will never ever be your friend! If you were thinking about talking to her again and accepting her apology... Dude! you know why she keeps doing the same to you? Because you are letting her do it to you! You are just humilating yourself. It´s okay to be nice and kind, but not with everyone. Don´t you wnat to be happy? Then be brave, and learn to defend yourself, be sweet when you really need to. What do you think about all this?

(By the way if you have more problems with frienship or you are confused go to this blog: http://bestfriends43andlife.blogspot.com